What a man wants

If you read the title to this and immediately started singing “What a Girl Wants” by Christina Aguilera, you and I are on the same page. I appreciate the feedback I received to my post about my experience with online dating, which ranged from the empathetic to the surprised. Yes, for average-ish men, online dating […]

We need to be known

I’m tickled that several people enjoyed (and unfortunately could relate to!) my last post about the struggles of online dating. It stinks! So why do I and so many others choose to put ourselves through such an ordeal? The obvious answer is because we hold out some amount of hope that we can find someone […]

How the heart heals and loves again

Some of us are lucky in love. We have a high school sweetheart, fall madly in love, get married and stay married for 60 years. Others of us, it doesn’t work out quite like that. Be it the inability to find anyone to love us; a lack of faithfulness by ourselves or our partner; abuse; […]